I know I have been posting crap for so long. I am not blessed with good writing and creative thinking skills to keep updating my blog by building up one sappa matter to extra large posts. Today I have reason to write.
I suddenly wanted to know what it is to love someone unconditionally. I read somewhere that “To be brave is to love someone unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. To just give.” It takes more than courage if u ask me. It should just happen. Some weird stuff I can guarantee.
U find yourself hitting on d strongest wall u have ever seen for talking to a certain person and loving him (for convenience purpose I use ‘him’. It can well be ‘her’ too) and then u ask out of frustration ‘why did I ever love such a damn selfish idiotic (feel free to fill in what ever bad words u know) and then finally end up finding no reason and still feel u love them and a certain strange weird feeling grip u n u find yourself loving that person more at that moment and then BANG ON u got it. U love him or her unconditionally. Bravo!! It doesn’t matter to u if they are selfish or love someone else or its someone who don’t even bother to think that u have a heart of your own. What still matter is, u love that person with every single beat of your heart and u feel at peace and contended that they just exist. It doesn’t matter if they r near u or far away, if they feel your love or not. What matters is u find a strange peace in knowing that u love that person.
Its very rare to c such love. I read somewhere that it is common among siblings. The bond lasts forever even if it sustains severe damages. If u get it, u can consider yourself lucky. For those of u who don’t have siblings, don feel bad, the love of your life is just round the corner and is waiting for u to spot him or her!
Love doesn’t just mean relationships and marriage. It can be anything. Sometimes certain relationships cannot be defined. Love can be anywhere. It will hit u when u least expect it.
Guess I am getting too philosophical.. newayz.. Just had a chance to feel what that ‘unconditional love’ really is and I fully appreciate it only now..
So… c u then.. until I find something that interests me enough to sit up n write…
Ps: I had a ‘serious’ argument with one of my close friends on this topic who seem to think that “there is no such term as unconditional love”. In a way he is right. He had valid arguments (trust me). But perhaps he has not felt what I did. Again like I said certain things can’t be put in words (rather I am not proficient enough.) so that’s it for now.
